First time sex with your guy is a big deal, whether you are a virgin or have experienced sex before. It is the most intimate thing you can do with another person and should not be taken lightly. You want your first time with your guy to be very special and romantic, so you remember it forever. But sometimes things don't always work out like you planned. Here are three things that will ruin your first time with your guy.
Having first time sex with your guy in a car or bathroom stall of a restaurant won't be very romantic or comfortable. Worrying that someone else might catch you two in the act will not make you feel very relaxed. It is best to have first time sex with your guy in the bedroom where there is plenty of room and privacy.
Not being ready
If you truly don't feel ready to have sex with your guy but do it anyway, you probably will not have a pleasant experience. It is important to wait until you are completely ready before you have sex with someone. If you don't, you will regret it in the future. You also shouldn't let your guy pressure you to have sex if you are not ready. If he truly cares for you, he will wait until you're ready.
Feeling insecure about your body
It is normal to sometimes feel insecure about your body. All women go through this. But feeling so insecure about your body that you won't even take all your clothes off during sex can ruin the moment. Men like women who are confident, so it might turn your guy off if you're too self-conscious to show of your body in bed. Sex also won't be much fun for you because you will be too busy trying to cover up certain body parts, so your guy doesn't see them.
Like I said before, don't treat first time sex with your guy lightly. It's a big step in your relationship and should be treated as such. If you make the effort to make your first time with him special, you will be much happier.
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