Overview
You won't learn anything new by having the same conversations with the same people again and again. It's time to expand your circle of conversational partners and try to connect with someone you normally wouldn't even notice. Reach out to a shy person and try to draw her or him out. In the process, you will learn a lot about your expectations -- and how they might be difficult for some people to meet. Understand that not everyone has the same opinions that you do.