Overview
If you need to say something to someone that you fear might generate a negative reaction, your best bet is to just hurry up and get it over with! Skip the subliminal stuff -- hinting around about what your true meaning might be won't do you any good, and it could send the message that you are up to something. Come right out with what you have to say. Be clear, honest and tactful. Your forthrightness will earn you respect and honesty in turn.