Overview
Make a concerted effort to keep the past in the past today! Just because a person did something wrong to someone you care about or made some other type of mistake years ago does not mean that they are a bad person through-and-through. You have to give other people the benefit of the doubt. Give them the respect you would give to anyone else. It's perfectly okay to remember what they did, but unless it was something against you, you shouldn't hold it against them.
