Overview
You simply shouldn't take negative things seriously today. Any metaphorical stop signs, refusals, brick walls or red lights are not the end of the world. They are simply annoyances that you must ignore. Give things another try -- figure out a new route. Maybe there's something you haven't thought of? Chances are someone who's been down this road before has some excellent insight, so why don't you drop them an email and find out what advice they have for you?