Overview

Here's a news flash: romance is supposed to be fun, not work. So if you are working at getting closer to someone right now, stop doing it. If all it adds to your life is stress, it might not be worth it. Arguments, missed dates, conflict -- these aren't just obstacles to moving your relationship forward. They are sure signs that now is not the time for the two of you. Step back from the relationship and give the other person time to realize how much they miss you when you're not around.