Overview
If you aren't on board with a plan, then make that clear to everyone else as soon as possible. That means that if a friend has their heart set on a crazy night out full of adventures and outrageous activities while you're more interested in getting into your pajamas, let them know! Tell them to go have fun without you, because there is no way that you can come to a compromise that will satisfy both of you. Sometimes it is healthier for a relationship if you go your own way.
