Overview
It's time to acknowledge that you cannot change how people make decisions. If you want the people you love to be happy, all you can do is encourage them and remind them that they are entitled to be happy. Ultimately, it is up to them to improve their situations. You can't do the hard work for them. Even though you love someone and are positive that you know how to help them, you're seeing things through your own filter, and you may be doing a bit of projecting.