Overview
Do you think someone is not being totally open with you right now? Your instincts are right on. But their tight-lipped status is not due to an inability to trust you -- they are keeping quiet because they are afraid that you don't want to hear what they have to say! Make it clear to this friend, associate, or mere acquaintance that you are totally willing to hear what they have to say. And take any advice, if they give it -- it's going to be very valuable.