Overview
If you aren't sure if you are ready to commit to a party, a date, a new job, or anything else that will take a chunk of your time, then don't say that you will commit just because you are afraid to hurt someone's feelings. The worst thing you can do is make a promise that you can't deliver on. It could brand you as an unreliable person, which you most definitely are not. So try not to be flighty -- be honest. In the end, people will appreciate honesty more than half-baked involvement.
