Overview
You will be asked to give someone some tough advice today, and you should be careful not to be too dogmatic in what you say. Preaching will get you nowhere with them -- they will just shut their ears and regret that they ever asked you. Instead, take into consideration that this person, while they are specifically asking for your help, does not see life the same way you see it. Customize what you tell them with their lifestyle in mind. Speak in big, broad terms.