Overview
A controversial issue could be causing conflict between you and someone you love today -- but does it have to? Your opinions are important, and it's important to defend how you feel about things. But is it worth upsetting someone else? If they can't be big enough to accept your position, then you have to be big enough to accept theirs -- you don't have to agree with it. What the two of you have together is more important than being 'right' or being the victor in a debate.
