Overview
You've been going over this for a while now, trying to decide whether to keep quiet or just say what needs to be said. At the moment -- and only if you're intuitively inspired to believe that opening up is the right thing -- you'll go for it and announce what's going on to just about anyone handy. Careful, though. Stop short of hiring a skywriter. The element of surprise is always fun -- and do you really want to live down that story for the rest of your life?