Overview
Do your best to maintain a controlled, calm demeanor when someone says something shocking to you today. This person is trying hard to make you lose your temper, and you shouldn't give her or him that satisfaction. So if you find yourself in a conflict of some kind, just remember that this person is testing -- or even teasing -- you. This provocation might even be a form of flirtation -- but didn't you outgrow that kind of flirtation in elementary school?
