Overview
Every relationship has its issues -- this is unavoidable and perfectly normal. What is not normal is pretending that everything is okay when it most certainly is not. Ignoring a problem is not the same as solving a problem, so do not confuse the two! The only way to get through this issue is to talk it out -- preferably as soon as you can. A face-to-face conversation is necessary. The honesty and trust you need to convey won't register over email or phone lines.