Overview
The problem between you and a coworker or peer is not due to a lack of intellectual connection. The two of you are definitely on the same page in terms of your mental focus and agility. The real root of the conflict or tension you're feeling right now probably has more to do with outside elements. Something may be going on with their life that you don't know about -- and don't need to know about. You two can have a good time together: The key is to stop thinking that you're doing something wrong.
