Overview
There's only one person you can think of who's equipped to give you the advice you need now -- especially since it's such a private matter. So go see them, or at least give them a call. If you're not sure of what to do, most especially if the matter involves your career or reputation, don't hesitate to ask for help. After all, think of how many times and how many ways you've offered to help in the past -- without ever being asked.