Overview
Have you ever cooked something that turned out to be less delicious than you expected? You had all the ingredients and you did everything according to the recipe -- but it just didn't come together in the right way. In a group situation right now, you are experiencing the same sort of thing. And the problem lies in the quality of your ingredients. It's not that something is missing -- the elements are all there, but one (or perhaps two) of them is just not good enough.
