Overview
You certainly don't like to be preached at, so you should understand that no one else does either -- make sure you stay off of the soapbox today. If you have been having great success with a new diet or a new savings plan, good for you -- the people in your life are very happy for you! But don't assume that they want to know all your secrets, and definitely don't assume that they want your advice on their own challenges. Don't project your goals onto others.