Overview
When you treat a conflict like a puzzle today, you put yourself in a powerful position. Ask for the information you need to help solve this riddle, and you will be the one who stays in control. The other person or persons in this situation are not nearly as quick as you are at connecting all the dots, so don't worry that they will come to a solution before you do. It's time to step up and be more conscious about what you have to say in order to get what you want.