Overview
You need to be patient if you want closure on an ongoing conflict -- it probably isn't coming any time soon, in part because the other person or people involved are nowhere near admitting to the extent of the role they played. So instead of wondering what you can do to affect the actions of other people (which is nothing, by the way), focus on your self -- both your inner and your outer selves. Have a 'me' day soon and do only things that you want to do.