Overview
If you are in a quandary right now about how someone feels about you, turn to someone who has insight into this person's inner life. Ask them to act as a translator. Their insight will be invaluable in helping you decipher someone's ambiguous statements. You'll get a better handle on how to take things from here. Just make sure you don't ask this intermediary to do any negotiating for you. You need to have your own relationship with the person who's confusing you.