Overview
You don't have to let minor disappointments upset you in a major way. If you run into a bummer today, force yourself to look at the big picture, and you'll see that things aren't so bad. There are many possible good outcomes to any negative situation. You can see them if you just look hard enough. If someone refuses an invitation you've made, it's not the end of the world. At least now you know for certain that you can cross this person off your list and move on to another.
