Overview
You are coming to realize that friendships come in all shapes, sizes and power dynamics. You cannot be the leader all the time, and you most certainly cannot be a follower all the time. Experiment in your relationships today -- step up and try to drive the plans in a friendship in which you just usually go along for the ride. Or ease up and let the other person plan the day if you are usually the one calling all the shots. Mixing it up will show you where you belong.