Overview

Someone close to you needs you to give them something, and it could be a gesture or commitment you are not ready to give. So instead of simply giving them what they want, you need to teach them how to find it for themselves. Over the years you have learned a lot about getting what you want, so why not share that with them? You may be telling them something that they don't want to hear, but in the end it will be better for both of you if you put yourself first, at least for now.