Overview
Imagining someone as being the person you want him or her to be is a good way to retain positive feelings -- but are you fooling yourself? Try to be more open-minded about who this person really is -- and you will see a true human being, not just the idealized creature you've created. This will be a good experience, not a disappointing one. Seeing all sides of someone may be a rude awakening from a dream state, but you have to wake up sometime.