Overview
When a new relationship blossoms, you don't always recognize it for what it is -- and this would be a shame, now that you are ready to start something new. The problem could be your expectations -- are they too specific? Don't try to cast people in preconceived roles; you're being too narrow about things. Let people fit into your life on their own terms, in their own ways. You can't force people to be who you want them to be. Respect them, and they'll respect you.