Overview
Try to take a more impersonal look at some problems you're having right now. Yes, it may seem counterintuitive to remove emotions from your thinking, but you will understand the wisdom of this soon, when talking to new people starts to get a lot easier. When you can see your life for what it is (not what it isn't, and not what you hope it becomes), you start to see things you never noticed before. It's time for frank discussions about what you want.