Overview
Keep your distance from needy people for now and avoid letting them use what's yours. It might make you feel a bit un-neighborly, but sharing resources with disorganized people could have a very stressful effect on the relationship you have with them. Too many variables are at play, and the chances that you will emerge from the arrangement without losses are very slim. Define your boundaries today, and you will be able to avoid making commitments that could come back to haunt you.
