Overview
If a friend or loved one is in a bind right now, you need to fight your urge to swoop down and save them like a superhero. It's not that you should abandon someone you care about, it's just that this person needs to figure their own way out of this mess -- they got themselves into it, and they should get themselves out of it. If they ask for your help, give them cold logic -- not warm flattery. They need to face reality today so they won't make the same mistake tomorrow.
