Holiday Party Etiquette 101
By Locke Hughes
'Tis the season for parties and get-togethers! But as fun as holiday gatherings can be, they also bring some tricky etiquette dilemmas, too. Whether it's last-minute cancellations or menu planning with allergies in mind, read on for expert etiquette tips from Lizzie Post of The Emily Post Institute and Dorothea Johnson, founder of the Protocol School of Washington.
Q: I've been invited to a party and my sitter cancelled at the last minute. Can I ask the host if I can bring my kids, or should I simply send my regrets?
Call the host as soon as possible and explain the situation. "Suggest a backup plan, such as your husband attending while you stay home or vice versa, so she doesn't feel cornered into inviting your children," Johnson advises.
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Q: I've planned a dinner party for a certain number of people and my friend brings a guest with her. How do I handle this with tact?
Smile, invite the person in and discreetly set an extra place, Post says. "During dinner, follow the FHB, or Family Hold Back, rule," Post says. "Serve yourself a little bit less to ensure there's enough for everyone."
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Q: If someone brings food or drink as a hostess gift, am I expected to serve it that night?
"Unless it's a potluck-style meal, no," says Johnson. "Guests should assume you've planned the menu in advance and that unexpected additions may not work with what you're serving."
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Q: Is it the hostess's responsibility to ask about dietary restrictions?
"It's ultimately the guest's duty to inform the hostess of any food allergies or aversions in advance," explains Post. If it's a matter of choice (e.g., the guest is a vegetarian), she should offer to bring a dish for herself. If the guest suffers from a food allergy, the hostess should plan a meal with this in mind.
Photo: © Erin Althea/Woman's Day
Article originally appeared on WomansDay.com.
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