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    User post: Should more parents let their kids walk to school?

    Kids are putting on their backpacks, sharpening their pencils, and returning to class, but how many of them will actually walk to school? Not many compared to eras past. In 1969, some 50 percent of children walked or biked to school, and 87 percent of children living within one mile of school got a little morning exercise. Today, fewer than 15 percent of kids walk or bike to school.

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    In the second grade, I started walking home from school. After the final bell rang, my spindly 8-year-old legs carried me two miles from Daves Avenue Elementary School to my home where my mom was waiting for me. I walked with a pack of neighborhood kids: Carol, Amy, Christina, Kenny. Along the way we collected sticks and rocks, blew the fuzz off dandelions, and stuffed our pockets with roly-polies.

    On these walks, I learned how to outrun fierce guard dogs and hop over King Snakes basking in the sun. I learned how to ask strangers gardening in their front yards if I could pick cherries from their trees. I gained independence, confidence, and basic survival skills.

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    I recently retraced my childhood steps between my parents' house and my former elementary school. I hadn't walked the route in over a decade yet I still recognized houses along the way and noticed those that had been torn down and rebuilt as oversize palaces. I spotted trees that I used to climb and curbs that I tiptoed along in balancing acts. But mainly, the walk was a reminder of the freedom I had as a child growing up in the California Bay Area suburbs in the 1970s. As an 8-year-old I spent some two hours of nearly every day dillydallying around my neighborhood streets without an adult saying "Hurry up" or "Don't you dare jump in that puddle!"

    My daughter is 7-years-old and in the second grade and my son is 5-years-old and just starting kindergarten. Both attend a public school in San Francisco. They will probably never walk to school. In our city, children don't got to their neighborhood school. Rather they're assigned to schools dispersed throughout the city in order to create diverse schools with children from all different backgrounds. And so we live nearly four miles from school.

    The walk would require crossing countless busy streets, passing under freeways, and walking through rough neighborhoods. If I let my kids walk to school, I'd probably make front-page news.

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    This is what happened to Lenore Skenazy, a Manhattan mom and author of the parenting book Free Range Kids, who made newspaper headlines when she sent her son on the New York subway at age 9 in April 2008. In a column for the New York Sun, she wrote, "Was I worried? Yes, a tinge. But it didn't strike me as that daring, either. Isn't New York as safe now as it was in 1963? It's not like we're living in downtown Baghdad."

    While some parents these days believe their kids are growing up in a scary world, Skenazy argues that raising children in the United States now isn't more dangerous than it was when today's generation of parents were young. "Crime today is basically where it was at in the 1970s," she says. "And we're assuming kids can't do the same things we did ourselves as kids. This doesn't make sense."

    Skenazy is an advocate for kids riding solo on public transit and she also believes children should walk to school. Her son started walking a mile to school with a friend when he was in the fourth grade. "They stop at the deli for something to eat--usually some chocolate, something unhealthy," says Skenazy, who lives near the Empire State Building. "And they even stop to play at the park. My son loves it."

    What about cars? Isn't Skenazy afraid that her little one might get hit? She's quick to point out that 50 percent of kids run over by cars while walking to school are hit by parents who are driving their kids to school. "This is nonsense," she says. Also, Skenazy has spent a lot of time walking with her son and teaching him how to safely cross the street.

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    In 1969, approximately 50 percent of children walked or biked to school, and 87 percent of children living within one mile of school did. Today, fewer than 15 percent of schoolchildren walk or bike to school, according to Safe Routes to School (SRTS), a network of nonprofits, government agencies, and schools supporting a movement to encourage kids to walk to school. In fact, driving to school has so thoroughly penetrated the K-8 consciousness that school "arrival" and "dismissal" times have been linguistically recast as "drop-off" and "pickup" hours.

    As a result, kids today are less active, less independent, and less healthy. In fact, one recent study found that kids ages 10 to 13 who walked to school daily were 80 per cent less likely to be obese than those who got a ride.

    Another study published last month found that walking to school reduces stress in kids and may curb the risk of heart disease.

    Researchers at the University of Buffalo, N.Y., took a group of 40 kids, ages 10 to 14, and had half sit in a comfy chair and watch a 10-minute slide show of images of a suburban neighborhood, ending with an image of a suburban school. The idea was to simulate a typical drive to school.

    The other half "walked" one-mile on a treadmill at a self-selected pace, wearing a book bag containing 10 percent of their body weight. As they walked, the images of the suburban neighborhood were projected onto a screen. These kids were walking to school.

    After a 20-minute rest period, all kids took a test--aimed at putting them under some stress.

    The heart rates of children who walked to school jumped up by only about three beats per minute when put under stress, compared with 11 beats in kids who traveled by car. Similarly, the rise in systolic blood pressure was more than three times higher, and the change in perceived stress about twice as high, for the passive commuters.

    Another reason to let your kids walk is to help reduce neighborhood traffic. As much as 20 to 30 percent of morning traffic can be generated by parents driving their children to schools, according to SRTS. If you drive around nearly any town or city around 8 a.m., you'll quickly realize that this fact must be true when you notice the stream of minivans inching along the road.

    My mother tells me she notices more moms driving around my hometown with carloads of kids now than she did when I was young. "I don't think any of the children on the street are walking to Daves Avenue," she says. This saddens me. These kids don't know what they're missing out on: snakes, dandelions, shiny rocks, perfect climbing trees.

    Did you walk to school as a child? Do you allow your children to walk to school? Why or why not?

    Photo: Flickr/D. Sharon Pruitt

     

    129 comments

    • sliver59crows  •  1 year 0 months ago
      I walked to Kindergarten! Alone. I started one year earlier than everyone else; I was five year old. Five blocks I walked
      My Grandmother took me the first day to show me the route. After that, I was on my own. No one got in a big nervous wreck about it. It was routine. The crime rate then is the same as it is today. No worse; no better.
      Child predators have always been around. Our parents taught us how to deal with adults who acted "strangely", and it worked just fine for us. Children are smarter than people give them credit for, and handle bad situations quite well, especially if they have been instructed in how to handle such situations.
      All this paranoia about your kids being in constant danger started with the Etan Patz disappearance in 1972. It was made a media circus and continues to today. Your fears are making car manufacturers, bus manufacturers, the educational system, and doctors very rich. Your refusal to let your children exercise and just be curious, active children are creating kids that obese and are future cases of heart disease, diabetes, etc. There's got to be a better way. First, get over your unfounded paranoia. You're pumping cortisol constantly and makes you a candidate for heart disease, etc. Do a google for Etan Patz.
    • Jimena  •  1 year 9 months ago
      And okay, for everyone who thinks it's way too dangerous to let your kid walk to school if it's within a reasonable distance? Um, chances that your kid is going to get snatched is highly unlikely. The only reason we're so scared is because of all the tv shows and media that highlights the rare occassions that it does happen, and then plays them over for years.
    • Cursed Romantic  •  1 year 9 months ago
      The only times I walked to school was when I stayed late after school making up class work and that was in elementary when the school was pretty much right around the corner from my house. Heck the alley leading up to the school was right there on my street and my neighbors would watch out for me when I would come home on my own. But more often than not my mom and then a family friend walked me to school when my mom got sick. As I got older the schools got much farther out and where I live there are hardly enough sidewalks to walk on, nor at the time was there any public transportation either that I could use if I had of gotten lost along the way. As for taking a school bus as I got older that wasn't likely either as the stops were 3 miles out of the way for me to even catch a bus. So that is why my dad eventually started taking me to school on his way to work. So although I don't have kids, I say that kids should have the option of walking themselves to school if they live close enough to the school to do so and the parents can still sort of trail them and make sure they get there safely. But by no means do I believe that they SHOULD be walking to school on their own because the parents simply don't want to take them or think it should be mandatory for a child to just start walking to school because the parent believe they should. I mean that is just plain silly with so many crazy people out in the world. And yes stranger danger is not anything new nor has it stopped happening either. So I don't think parents should make it easier for these sort of predators to take an interest in their kids by allowing them to become easy targets out walking to and from school on their own.
    • JLR  •  1 year 9 months ago
      Dorian is absolutely right. To put it into perspective, on average, more Americans get hit by lightening each year than there are child stranger abductions. And the statistics regarding stranger abductions -- on the order of 200 to 300 per year nationwide -- are virtually unchanged since the 1970s. The reason why we hear more about children being abducted (i.e., on milk cartons) is because of family abductions -- usually because of custody disputes.
    • IsabellaD  •  1 year 9 months ago
      My friend's little sister walks to school with her mom every morning, and her mom walks to pick her up. My old school was 4/5 of a mile away, and I wasn't allowed to walk there when I was in 8th grade. I did sometimes walk home if I had permission, but my mom wasn't happy (it was a busy street with no sidewalk).

      But, I would walk if I had the choice. Now my school is over 8 miles away, making walking impossible.
    • Jett  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I probably walked home from the bus stop as far as some kids walk to school. Our elementary school is almost 10 miles from the house in which I lived as a child in the 1980s and 90s; the junior high was about 7 miles away. There's no way I could have walked. But my bus dropped off my brother and me 5 houses down from our house, and we walked home from there. No, that isn't a great distance, but like some people have mentioned, they live that far from their child's school, so really what's the difference?

      Safely walking to and from school depends on the neighborhood and the town and the crime rate, so it's obviously not a one-size-fits all solution. But I agree with the author referenced above who says the U.S. (and probably the world at large) is not any more dangerous than it was forty years ago. There are different dangers now, and maybe now bus routes are longer than they were then, but the children who live close enough to school to walk do not face any more peril than they did then. On the other hand, they don't face any less, so it's up to parents what they choose to do.

      Keep in mind that both of my parents grew up in New York City and walked to school in Brooklyn and Queens. Neither one was ever attacked.

      My husband and I live a mile from all five schools that our child might possibly attend one day. We will likely walk, but I intend to walk with them, at least for the first few years. We live in a rural town that is probably as safe as a town can be. And there are sidewalks. I too fondly remember collecting leaves and acorns and finding interesting things on the way home from the bus stop as a child.
    • Dorian  •  1 year 9 months ago
      If safety is your concern Lisa you should know that children have a much MUCH higher chance of being hurt or killed in a motor vehicle (you driving them to school) about 250,000 a year, than by some random stranger waiting in the bushes to kidnapp them while they walk to and from school, about 200 to 300 a year. In fact, in most child rapes, abductions, injuries, and disappearances the child's parents or family members are to blame.
      I'm all for being safe, but I also understand the importance of raising responsible, independent, street smart kids who will okay in a situation even if mommy is not there to hold their hand. It's all about finding a balance where they have enough freedom to learn what they will need to survive later in life, and the confidence to know that you are still there for them when they need you.
    • LisaT  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I understand that there are statistics that say that it is more dangerous to ride in a car than the threat of child molestations or kidnappings, but it all depends on the area in which you live. And do not be fooled, even in affluent neighborhoods there are sex offenders. I prefer to personally either walk or drive my child to school, pick him up after school, and then he can play at a park, neighbor's house, or our backyard. There are over 200 offenders that live in my ZIP CODE..with many living in an apartment complex 3 blocks away. The neighborhood however is very nice. You can never tell...
    • Stephanie  •  1 year 9 months ago
      Well said Angela. The world is as it was years ago, the difference is that we now have a constant stream of media telling us everything that's going wrong in the world. Kidnappings and pedofiles have always been around, we just hear about all of them now. Look at Casey Duggard....that happened 18 years ago!!!! Parents really just need to let go of the leash a little bit, they just need to be smart about it.
    • CaraG  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I lived one mile from my elementary, middle and high school. Because they had no sidewalks we were bussed in. I did walk sometimes in middle school, mostly on the way home, so that I wouldn't be late, but since the bus was provided everyone tended to use that.

      Now, we live half a mile from my son's school. He's in 3rd grade this year and we've walked or biked together every year since Kinder. We have to cross a four lane street, which starting last year we walked together and then I'd get a kiss goodbye as he continued on the next few blocks. Next year, I think I'll let him walk on his own. If we had more walkers nearby I'd send him off tomorrow to catch up with them, but there aren't any that come by way of our street.
    • Jimena  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I wish I could've walked, it would've been so much fun! But, in elementary school my school was right by the river and I was up on the hill--a good 5 miles from the river. Junior high was no closer, as it was located in the heart of my town but then again, I was still located about 5 miles away, up on the hill. My high school was like four blocks from junior high, so same story there. It was just never a very feasable option to walk.
    • Melissa N  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I see people who live just up the road that have to drive their kids to school. I live a half a block from the school and morning traffic is awful and doesn't need to be at all. It is ridiculous. We didn't walk because we had a bus when we were little.
    • Kirby  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I just love these "Have you ever watched Nancy Grace?" or "I watch true crime shows...the world is dangerous!" No, it isn't. The news is DESIGNED to hold your attention, same as any other show. So, of COURSE they are going to show you the most shocking things. The media creates fear.

      No, I don't watch TV, I read the paper, I read the news online, oh yeah...and I am a criminal justice major, who spends all week with cops, former cops, and, yeah, I'm related to a bunch too. And, I hear things a lot different than they are portrayed on the news.

      Your kids are much more likely to be killed in a car accident while being driven to school than they are to be killed by a psycho on their walk to school! Your kids are more likely to be molested by your brother or your uncle or who ever the heck you get to walk them to school than they are to be molested by and random pedophile.

      And, yes, I know we have the sex offender registry, it's ridiculous. Just more fear. Most the people on there are absolutely NO threat to you or your 10 year old.

      Yes, I would let my kids walk to school. (and, yes, I have 2 kids, so this isn't hypothetical.) And, I am neither neglectful or a bad parent.
    • KatieM  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I never walked to school as a child. I live on the edge of a rather dangerous neighborhood. There've been shootings one block away. In order to get to my first elementary school, I had to go straight through that neighborhood. My second elementary school was a good ten minute drive away, which equates to about an hour or so walking. My mother felt, especially as I got older and stayed up later, that getting enough sleep in was more important than waking me up at 5:30, 6:00 in the morning to walk to school. By the time I was in high school, which was a decent distance away along a good neighborhood, my backpack became weighted down with my entire locker nightly (Making it a good 30 to 40 pounds, depending on the classes I was taking.) That's well above the averaged 10% body weight for an average teenager.
      I'd like to see where the author got the statistics that crimes are the same as they were 40 years ago, because I've been reading a book focusing on violent crimes, and they've provided studies and such showing that such crimes have risen greatly in the past few decades. We hear about more kids being abducted now than we did years ago. We even had this at my elementary school. One man, we never did catch him, tried to pick up a girl in my class while she walked home with her brother and friend, about a park and five blocks from the school distance. As a result, unless you live right by the school AND have written permission from your parents, you're not allowed to even walk across the street to the parking lot to your car without an adult.
      Kids can still gain independence, confidence and survival skills without walking to school. It's not being driven to school thats changed that, it's being coddled by parents. My mother never coddled me. Ever since third grade I've known how to do laundry, wash dishes, sweep, vaccum, talk to people to get information or items I need, et cetera.

      In light of everything I've said, if you live right by the school,your kids should be walking. There was a girl in my class who lived right by our high school, and every day her mom or grandpa came to pick her up, because she couldn't walk across the street.
    • m  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I would love for my children to walk to school, but their schools don't allow children to arrive at school unaccompanied by a parent unless they've ridden the school bus. My children are in 3rd, 6th and 8th grades -- and we live in the safest city in our state. Crazy!
    • Collins Family  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I would say no. This world is far too dangerous to let small children out of your sight. Even grown adults get kidnapped and murdered. Children have no way of defending themsevles against a strong adult. Just research the number of sex offenders/crime rates in your city and I garauntee you will not let them walk alone. I love my children far to much to even give a chance for something bad to happen to them.
    • angela  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I walked to school and too dodged scary neighborhood dogs and even busy streets. The difference is that I for the most part walked with a group of kids so I do believe there is safety in numbers. My son just started kindergarten and the school is about 1/2 mile away in our neighborhood. I DO think walking is important so I have been walking with him. He asked me today as he saw kids in his class hop in their cars for the short ride to school why they got to ride and HE had to walk. I told him simply that I wanted both his mind and body to be healthy and the walking will help with both. BTW - I am not a stay at home mom. I plan my morning and lay everything out so that I can run back home, jump in the shower and get to work after our walk together.
    • Christine  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I walked to school every day, every year, from second grade on. I walked all over my college campus, and then after that I walked to work until this last year.

      My kids both walked to school last year--we live right across the street. Now the older one is in middle school almost a mile and a half away. She's supposed to ride the bus. However she overslept yesterday--and had to walk.

      What really drives me nuts is that the elementary school won't let my first-grader walk home by himself, when we are literally across the street. You can see our yard from the school's front doors, but I have to walk over their and fetch him every day.
    • Deidra  •  1 year 9 months ago
      Faith -vs- knowing your child is safe. If I drop my child off at school, or walk them into the school building, then I know that my child has arrived to school safely. If my child walks to school, I'm mentally crossing my fingers that my child has arrived safely, and without incident. I agree with Cursed Romantic, Dana and especially Chloe (esp. about leaving a Louie Vuitton Bag unattended-I chuckled out loud with that one :) ) Why are parents nowadays so quick to abdicate parental responsibility? Eventually, you get your "me" time back, children are little temporarily. If your child is abducted, harmed or God forbid murdered all that these "underprotective" parents and people that like to quote statistics can do is say "I'm sorry." Here is an idea, why not choose to live close to a relative or grandparent, who can drive your child to school or walk your child to school, doesn't that provide reinforcement for your child feeling protected and secure? During the 180 days during the school year, unforeseen situations are bound to arise, i.e. bullies, stray dogs, pedophiles, etc.. NOTHING BEATS PARENTAL SUPERVISION. Again, I have to ask, during the Winter months, when the temperature is below 20 degrees, do you pack "little Johnny's lunch box" and then send him out the door with the idea of self-sufficiency!? It seems that the call for self-sufficiency is a mask for isolationism, that John Wayne "cowboy" type of mentality, you have to make it on your own AT AGE 5! Perhaps we should give them swords and shields and tell them to go fight with the 299 other Spartans.
    • violina.  •  1 year 9 months ago
      I personally would love to walk to school and I always have wanted to. (I am starting my senior year this fall) But its always been so difficult to do, because we live out in the country. It would take me at least two hours to walk to my high school, and my middle school was in town so it would have taken so much longer. My elementary school was close my by high school. I would have gotten hit, because the shoulder on our road is literally about two inches wide, and people are careless drivers. Speeding 20 over while texting and eating. It would be a huge problem if my parents had my sister and I walk.

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