Gynotalk with Dr. Kate

By Dr. Kate Last updated: Tue Sep 8, 2009 8:11am PDT
  • I Don't Want Sex Anymore

    By Dr. Kate, on Sun Aug 9, 2009 9:49pm PDT

    Dear Dr. Kate,

    I am a 27-year-old woman. I have four children and have been very happily married for ten years. My problem is that I have no sex drive whatsoever. I have tried almost everything except pills which I want to stay away from. I know four children sounds like a lot of work and it is but I stay at home with them so it's not as stressful if I was working and being mom. But at the end of the day no matter how much I rest during the day or how many days a week I try not to do to much but just let my body rest, I still have no desire for lovemaking. Read More »

  • I Don't Want To Go To The Gynecologist!

    By Dr. Kate, on Mon Aug 3, 2009 8:20pm PDT

    It's sometimes tough to have a job where no one is happy to come see you. Yes, I have a good relationship with my patients, and there's even a wait to get an appointment with me. But even my long-timers sometimes grit their teeth at the thought of coming in for their annual exam. Through… Read More »

  • What Really Affects My Pregnancy Chances?

    By Dr. Kate, on Tue Jul 28, 2009 9:13pm PDT

    I've decided that there's no such thing as reproductive justice. Many of my patients try desperately to prevent pregnancy in their fertile years...and an equal number are trying so hard to get pregnant when they're finally ready. I hear questions almost daily about what affects the… Read More »

  • The Scoop on Ovarian Cysts

    By Dr. Kate, on Mon Jul 20, 2009 8:11pm PDT

    Almost every month, I have a patient who's been diagnosed with an ovarian cyst, and thinks she's going to be infertile or get really sick.  So I thought I'd talk about what ovarian cysts really mean for your health. What they are: Ovaries make… Read More »

  • "No One Wants To Have Sex With Me."

    By Dr. Kate, on Sun Jul 12, 2009 7:24pm PDT

    Dear Dr. Kate, I am 32 and I am still a virgin. Nobody seems to understand how much this bothers me. I am not a virgin because I am afraid of sex or because I was brought up in a repressive household. No, I am still a virgin because nobody is interested in me. Nobody has ever asked me out.… Read More »

  • I-U-Don't? I-U-Do!

    By Dr. Kate, on Fri Jul 3, 2009 9:21am PDT

    Hi Dr. Kate! I can't take hormonal birth control; I've had terrible side effects and I just don't like it! My question is; what is the best non-hormonal option? My doctor will not give me an IUD because I've never been pregnant. How effective is coupling condoms with a diaphragm… Read More »

  • Exactly Why STDs Are So Bad

    By Dr. Kate, on Sun Jun 21, 2009 9:09pm PDT

    One of the hardest parts of my job is calling a patient to tell her that she has a sexually transmitted infection (STD/STI). Every woman receives this news differently--shock, anger, horror, depression, resignation--but it always ruins her day and often sends her to the internet to find out what it… Read More »

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About This Author

I'm Dr. Kate, an OB/GYN who’s passionate about helping women be more knowledgeable and comfortable with their bodies. So in addition to my work at a large teaching hospital, I lecture nationally on women's health issues and conduct research on reproductive health. I’m here for you—the doctor is in! You can read more at www.gynotalk.com, or write to me at gynotalk [at] gmail.com.