Jeff’s Blog

By Jeff Last updated: Tue Jun 17, 2008 11:46am PDT
  • I need some advice for a friend

    By Jeff, on Sat Jun 14, 2008 7:00am PDT

    I was recently talking to a lady friend mine, who has recently gotten engaged. I am very happy for her. She is very busy with making wedding plans and they going to some premarital counseling. Anyway, during one of our converstaions recently, the topic of honesty came up. And I asked her if she was... Read More »

  • Facial Hair

    By Jeff, on Fri May 23, 2008 8:55pm PDT

    Most of the time I have facial hair in some form or another. It may be a full beard, a go tee in some form or another or possibly just a mustache. Once in while, I will shave clean but it usually doesnt stay that way for long. I was just wondering what women think of facial hair? Read More »

  • Do you sit around in your underwear?

    By Jeff, on Sat May 17, 2008 6:24pm PDT

    Its saturday night I am sitting in my apartment. I am pondering the thought of going out later but I probably wont. I have some plans tomorrow. Sometimes when I am alone, I will watch a football game or a movie wearing only underwear and a T-Shirt. No I am not watching porn. I am simply relaxing. I... Read More »

  • What to do with memorabelia after a breakup or divorce

    By Jeff, on Thu May 15, 2008 2:40pm PDT

    As I have mentioned before, I am recently divorced. I don’t know what reminded me of the box of pictures and trinkets in the storage shed. Maybe it was the warm spring air, thoughts of doing some organizing and spring cleaning this weekend. Ever since it got into my mind, I have been pondering... Read More »

  • What do women think of tattoos?

    By Jeff, on Tue May 13, 2008 7:06pm PDT

    I have nine tattoos. Nothing gowdy or disgusting. I do have one that has a cross with the names of my three kids on one side and the names of my three ex-step kids on the other side. I may have their names removed I am not sure. The only one that I now regret getting is the heart that had my... Read More »

  • What do you do to wind down at night?

    By Jeff, on Tue May 13, 2008 4:43am PDT

    When I am done for the day, all the emails written, phone calls made, post written and its time to call it a day, these are some things that I do; reflect on the day especially if something is really bothering me. I do flip on the TV alot at night. I will check to see if there is a good game on.... Read More »

  • A silver lining on Shine

    By Jeff, on Mon May 12, 2008 7:14pm PDT

    I stumbled onto shine 2 - 3 weeks ago. I don't even remember why but since then I have written several blogs and posted numerous times in response to other blogs. I find myself checking shine daily for new blogs from my shine friends. I never expected to make any friends on shine but I have and... Read More »

  • Important Charactor Traits besides a great body

    By Jeff, on Sun May 11, 2008 6:42pm PDT

    I read a blog a few minutes ago about a woman wondering where to meet good men. I wrote a short response and suggested that she make a list of characteristics that she would like. That got me to thinking about what is important to me and what characteristics I would want in someone that I date. That... Read More »

  • Acceptance is the answer

    By Jeff, on Sat May 10, 2008 8:45pm PDT

    In a book that I read frequently there an entire chapter devoted to acceptance. I feel that acceptance of self and other is important. And that if I can practice acceptance instead of focusing on my expectations, I get along in this world a little bit better. Acceptance has nothing to do with if I... Read More »

  • Single dad and loving it!

    By Jeff, on Sat May 10, 2008 6:52pm PDT

    Last summer I got custody of my daughter due to circumstance I dont care to discuss right now. Anyway, she is 8 years old and the light of my life. Last fall my wife and I seperated, not her mom. Since our move, we have made great friends that we never would have met. She has met a friend in our... Read More »

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About This Author

I am 41 and live in Northern, Va. About 35 miles west of Washington, DC. And no I am not a redskin fan and never will be. I am a loyal Dallas Cowboy fan and have been for over 30 years. I have custody of 8 year old daughter. I am currently divorced. Just looking to make some friends.