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Last week I had a first date with someone I'd spent a lot of time talking to on the phone. Each of us got sick after we started communicating, so we didn't actually meet until two weeks after first contact. That gave us time to learn that we seemed to share a similar sense of humor…

This weekend Stevie Wonder received the Gershwin Award for Lifetime Achievement from President Obama and performed at the White House with a great lineup of other performers joining in. Stevie is my favorite singer, songwriter and performer of all time and I think this is the first time I…

I recently attended a weekend workshop on women's sexuality presented by White Tigresses, followers of ancient Chinese sexual teachings dating back 3,000 years. The workshop was designed to help clear up blocks to intimacy and get the women participants back in touch with their sexy selves…

Do you want to “get lucky” – you know, find someone to love? Then you should feel positive: it increases the chances of good things happening in your life. Being open, aware and positive about new encounters, is practically guaranteed to attract good people to you.

When I was in middle school, my friends always commented on what a great marriage my parents had. Unlike their parents, who'd stopped at two or three closely spaced children, my parents had their fourth when I was in sixth grade. They kissed and hugged a lot, while my...

If you have trouble getting your man to open up, maybe it’s because he doesn’t want to talk about the same things you do. It’s widely accepted that men don’t want to have the “Where is this relationship going?” conversation. What isn’t as widely known or... Read More »

Getting dumped brings out your deepest insecurities, roiling you with self-doubt, second-guesses and what ifs. Right when you were feeling part of something meaningful, suddenly you're alone and bereft, pathetically considering asking the very question you likely once...