Read More »from What's on the menu?
I assure you this has nothing to do with food, just in case you were wondering what got into me. What I'm going to talk about is the big question "why do men cheat?" Well it looks like I've got your attention now, right?
Okay, so I'm sure you have asked yourself this question before "Why would men risk losing a perfect relationship for a night with some random girl?" "What is it that drives men to have a secret relationship which then slowly has them drift away?"
Unfortunately like everything else in life there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. Although it might feel like its perfect the truth is that some areas will almost always require some work or adjusting. What many people in a relationship fail to understand and accept is that as time goes by situations may change rather drastically. As responsibilities begin to pour in they find less time for intimacy.
No matter what people say, intimacy is the foundation of every healthy relationship. Unless the chemistry is there
Blog Posts by Andrei
Read More »from What's on the menu?
Read More »from Shacking up... too soon?
If you live in a fairly conservative community I'm sure you've often heard people state that couples should wait until they're married to live together, but how often do you get valid reason for that? Many claim it's not quite right, but I could vow that most of those same people don't even really know why.
Well I'm not one of those people. I believe it's an important step, and prior to committing any further a couple needs to be sure they can live 'agreeably' under the same roof.
There's a huge difference between dating, no matter how intense it is, and actually living together. Those hours spent alone can really unwind a person and prepare them for another encounter. Perhaps what many people fail to understand is that those hours tend to decrease dramatically when you're living with your partner. You normally also discover a few traits which were not so evident before. Some that you could like, while others you might not be too keen on. But then what happens if you simply can't
Read More »from Dial 911... it's PMS!
Let me start by saying this, most men have no clue of what PMS really is. We often hear the word and pretend to know all about it, but the there is nothing quite like it in a man's lifetime.
So how do men deal with it? How do we handle the hormone outbursts which translate in those rather unpleasant mood swings? Well, I read that the exact causes of PMS are still not fully understood. However the symptoms are clear, tension, irritability, insomnia, anxiety, fatigue… the list goes on and on. Apparently there are over 200 symptoms in total which have been associated to PMS. Personally that tells me it's a no win situation.
Certainly it is no walk in the park, and I assure you some men must dread that time of month possibly more than their woman. It could also be a relief if you've been having unprotected sex of course, but it comes with a price. With many women PMS is not about being extra sensitive, it's more along the lines of IMPOSSIBLE. So anyway, most men have come up with an
- Andrei | Love + Sex – Mon, Nov 16, 2009 5:56 AM EST
Although the L word gets thrown around a lot in relationships, the truth is that love tends to go through somewhat of a pattern. One day it feels really intense while another day it seems to fade away. Women would rarely admit this during the relationship because they fear it might trigger off a break-up, but many times it's rather evident. That doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is going downhill, however if it occurs frequently then it's probably a different story.
It is a sensitive subject and is not often the topic of discussion. In fact it is almost like a secret everyone tries to keep to themselves. Sometimes we find ourselves absorbed with personal issues, other times we might disagree on something and argue relentlessly, or else we may simply feel like we need our own space for a while. During such times it's not easy to deal with intimacy. There's only so much we can take in at once, and if we're caught up in thought, be it a personal problem or a recentRead More »from Sometimes it stops, sometimes it flowsâ€¦ but that is how love goes