After a relentless outcry from patrons, a Riverside, California, restaurant has nixed the portion of its dress code requiring women to wear high heels. The 1920s-themed bar and eatery, ProAbition, has also issued an apology on Facebook. "Our intention was never to offend anyone," it noted. Still, it's what happened, and continues to happen, with a steady stream of rules about what women can and can't wear. Luckily, for the most part, the rules keep getting reversed. And that's thanks to you, sisters, for speaking out.--Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff
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Restaurant's 'Sexist' High Heel Mandate Lifted. Dress Code Wars Rage On
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Fashion – 16 hours agoRed Robin Ad Mocks Vegetarians With 'Teen Phase' Joke. Guess Who's Not Laughing?
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Healthy Living – Tue, Jun 18, 2013 3:18 PM EDTAre vegetarians humorless? It’s the question being asked this week after a Red Robin television ad offended herbivores by touting its 24 types of burgers and then noting, with an implied eye roll and mock whisper, “We even have a Gardenburger—just in case your teenage daughter is going through a phase.”
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The commercial, part of a new campaign ad series, aired for about a week before being rotated out, as was planned from the start. But it prompted outrage among activists and on social media outlets, with a slew of horrified vegetarians taking the eatery to task for its condescending approach.
“Though I applaud any fast food chain that offers a veggie burger, and I hope that more do, the idea that not eating animals is reserved solely for teenage girls going through a phase is obviously meant to insult both vegans and girls,” Jasmin Singer, executive director of Our Hen House, a New York-based multimedia vegan Read More »from Red Robin Ad Mocks Vegetarians With 'Teen Phase' Joke. Guess Who's Not Laughing?'Toddlers & Tiaras'–Inspired Energy Drink? God Save the Pageant Queens
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Parenting – Mon, Jun 17, 2013 5:04 PM EDTPop quiz: After admitting on national TV to plying her 2-year-old daughter with frequent cups of coffee, as well as a pre-pageant “tinker tea” concoction of Mountain Dew, sweet tea and Pixie Stix, “Toddlers & Tiaras” mom Tori Hensley has received:
A.) Angry hate mailB.) An offer to develop her very own brand of energy drink for children
C.) All of the above
Yep, you guessed it: The answer is C.“We’re just in the negotiation stages,” Hensley confirmed to Yahoo! Shine, following a report about the impending product by Radar Online. She said she’s currently working with the unnamed, “big” company to create the drink, which would be marketed to children involved in pageants or dance, as well as—get this—to kids with hyperactivity disorders.
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“Caffeine actually reverses it in some children, not all, and can calm them down, instead of putting them on all these pills,” explained Hensley, adding that “of course we’re going to have different doctors, lawyers, everything like that,” involvedTSA Officer Accused of Shaming Teen for Wearing Leggings. Dad's Got This.
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Parenting – Mon, Jun 17, 2013 3:24 PM EDTThe Transportation Security Administration (TSA) is investigating a report that one of its officers allegedly humiliated a 15-year-old girl wearing leggings, a tank top, and a button-down, telling her she should cover up as she went through an ID-check line in the Los Angeles Airport Sunday.
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“She said the officer was ‘glaring’ at her and mumbling. She said, ‘Excuse me?’ and he said, ‘You're only 15, cover yourself!’ in a hostile tone,” the girl's father, Mark Frauenfelder, told Yahoo! Shine, echoing what he had written in a Boing Boing blog post describing the incident. “It shook her up," he added.
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Frauenfelder, who is editor in chief of Make magazine and the founder of Boing Boing, told Shine that his daughter, Sarina, was with a group of high school peers, on their way to visit colleges. He said that she began a rapid-fire series of texts to him Read More »from TSA Officer Accused of Shaming Teen for Wearing Leggings. Dad's Got This.Guys Gave Us Menopause, Says Study. We're Not Mad, Just Hurt.
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Healthy Living – Fri, Jun 14, 2013 5:18 PM EDTNext time you wake up in a sea of sweat—either from a hot flash or a dream about the hot flash (and chin hairs and memory lapses and a particularly disturbing dryness) you’re sure to suffer through eventually—don’t curse your womanhood. Curse men. And not just for the fun of it.
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You’d actually be justified in blaming them completely, according to a new scientific hypothesis that puts the onus of menopause squarely on men’s collective preference for younger ladies.
In the study, “Mate Choice and the Origin of Menopause,” published Thursday in the journal PLOS Computational Biology, researchers posit that, over many thousands of years, a lack of reproduction among older women has led to menopause, now an accidental result of evolution and natural selection.
“It’s a very simple theory. What it does is it demystifies menopause. ... It becomes a simple age-related disease, if you can call it that,” researcher Rama Singh told CTV News in Canada. “That’s just like all the mutations that affectRupert Murdoch Ex Wendi Deng: The Woman Behind Media's Biggest Divorce
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Love + Sex – Fri, Jun 14, 2013 4:17 PM EDTMedia reports about Wendi Deng—Rupert Murdoch’s wife of 14 years, from whom he filed for divorce this week—have offered sparse details about the brilliant and glamorous 44-year-old’s life. But many have portrayed her as a gold digger and husband stealer who slept her way to the top, faulting her both for being an independent businesswoman and someone who has relied on her husband’s connections.
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“It’s as if she’s in a no-win situation,” Gloria Allred, the high-profile civil-rights attorney and defender of women’s rights, told Yahoo! Shine. “The press wants to speculate, and they will speculate at the expense of the less powerful person in the relationship,” she said. “And that is almost always the woman.”
There have been both gender and ethnic stereotypes in Deng’s portrayals, damning her for everything from hobnobbing with Hollywood to being concerned with the financial interests of her children. Meanwhile, Allred said, “When youKate Middleton Sparks Interest in HypnoBirthing. What's It All About?
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Team Mom – Fri, Jun 14, 2013 1:28 PM EDTKate Middleton may be royalty, but she’s not too posh to push.
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The Duchess of Cambridge, whose first child is due in mid-July, is said to be leaning toward birthing her baby in as natural a way as possible. And to make that process easier, according to reports, she might be planning to use a calming technique known as HypnoBirthing.
The duchess was rumored to use hypnosis to overcome her acute morning sickness so this technique would be “second nature for her,” noted Alisha Tamburri, a Los Angeles HypnoBirthing practitioner whose clients have included Jessica Alba, Bridget Fonda, Melissa Joan Hart, Alanis Morisette, and Emily Deschanel.
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The method, popular both in Hollywood and outside of it, has “kind of replaced what Lamaze was years ago,” Tamburri said. It was founded in 1989 by New Hampshire hypnotherapist Marie Mongan, and essentiallyParents Launch Campaign to 'End Mommy Wars.' Amen
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Parenting – Thu, Jun 13, 2013 5:06 PM EDT"I'm not proud to admit it, but once I had a kid, I realized that I had been judging other moms," Michelle Noehren, founder of the online community CT Working Moms and mother to a 2-year-old daughter told Yahoo! Shine. It was this realization--which mirrored that of the many other mamas in the group--that led to their latest project, "End the Mommy Wars," a visual plea for loving sisterhood over judge-laden competition. After last year's effort, a post-baby-body photo shoot, went viral, the women decided they needed a powerful follow-up. "We wanted to move from embracing our bodies to embracing our parenting choices," Noehren said. Behold the empowering result.--Beth Greenfield, Yahoo! Shine Staff
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By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Healthy Living – Thu, Jun 13, 2013 3:10 PM EDTAfter a storm of controversy, Facebook officially changed its policy on the posting of mastectomy photos, making it clear on Wednesday that they are now permitted. And that’s been welcome news to the women behind the once-banned photos, who have called it a victory for their effort to make the truth about breast cancer visual.
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“We want the world to know that breast cancer is not a pink ribbon—it is traumatic, it is life-changing, and it urgently needs a cure,” wrote Scorchy Barrington in a special announcement on the Change.org petition she started and which was the force behind Facebook’s updated policy. Barrington (who uses a pseudonym) is a breast cancer survivor who has felt personally empowered by stark images of mastectomy scars. She felt compelled to start the petition after learning that Facebook had removed several of them and banned SCAR Project photographer David Jay for 30 days.
Another woman whose'Fairy Godmother' Gets Surprise Thank You From Mom After 27 Years. We Melt.
By Beth Greenfield, Shine Staff | Healthy Living – Thu, Jun 13, 2013 10:16 AM EDTWhen Patience Menakaya was seven months pregnant with her first child 29 years ago, she suddenly found herself in an unenviable position: A student at Dallas Baptist University, she was all alone in Forth Worth, Texas, after her husband became stuck in their native Nigeria during a coup d’état. After developing visa problems, she was kicked out by the friend she'd been staying with, and had nowhere to go.More on Shine: Mother, Son Reunite Thanks to Facebook and the Kindness of Strangers
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Enter Lolamay Daugherty, wife of the pastor where Menakaya attended church, who offered a generous solution. “We told her to just come and live with us,” she recalled, speaking with Yahoo! Shine this week. “We were happy to have her.”
It was a precious gift that Menakaya, now 53, said affected the entire course of her life. And last week, after three decades of ups and downs that included moving around the country, raising six children (all now college grads), splitting from her husband and eventually








