The other night I made herbed turkey burgers for dinner. Since our two-year-old has always been a diehard condiments fan, I put neat little dots of ketchup and mustard on her bun, silently congratulating myself on knowing her so well.
That's when the screaming started.
"I want it clean! Clean, like Stellie's!" Referring to her one-year-old sister Estelle's plain bun and patty arrangement, suddenly our pre-schooler was reduced to a shrieking puddle on the floor.
This is why I don't make two dinners. Mama mia, who has the energy to deal with the trials of two-year-olds AND double their cooking duties on top of it? Not this one.
Really though, I don't make a separate meal for the little guys (unless they're still eating pureed baby food and even then there are shortcuts to keep it simple) because I want us to be on the same page, figuratively. Eating the same food at the same table, literally, is a good way to do that.
Also, it's a pain to cook twice. Parenting is amazing, sometimes
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Stop Making Two Dinners: Versatile Ideas for the Whole Family
By Foodlets | Shine Food – Mon, May 7, 2012 9:08 AM EDTI head up a blog about cooking for kids called Foodlets.com. My aim is to make healthy, delicious food, both with and for kids so they'll grow up to cook themselves, and better yet, enjoy sitting around a table full of family and friends for years to come. I've got tips (let the kids help cook) and tricks (grate vegetables and add them to everything-everything!) but mostly I rely on simply delicious flavors for success. Sometimes it's a win, sometimes it's not. So goes life, especially life with kids.
But recently I was overwhelmed with responses to a post I wrote here about picky eaters. One issue came up over and over: why don't parents just make their kids eat what's in front of them the way most of ours did? Not everyone felt this way but when they did, the sentiment was almost always followed by some version of "Be the parent, not the friend!" plus a bit of grumbling that kids today are too spoiled…
As a parent who makes tremendous effort to prepare a nutritious, tasty meal
Read More »Why Are Some Kids Such Picky Eaters? Simple Solutions Worth Trying
By Foodlets | Shine Food – Tue, Apr 3, 2012 9:09 AM EDTA friend of mine relayed a familiar scene with her four-year-old on Facebook.
Lucy: "I don't like these meatballs." Me, noticing that they are still in big pieces: "Hmm, do you want me to cut them up a little more?" Lucy: "That won't make them yummy."
So goes the battle that in our house, we like to call dinner. But for some parents, it's hardly cause for a new status update. It's more of a tear-your-hair out exercise in frustration. Every day. I have two very young girls of my own and heaven help me, a baby boy on the way this summer. Further flirting with disaster on a nightly basis, I make it a point to cook a fresh meal every night and know the feeling that comes when my ta-da! moment is met with one of our two-year-old's negative reviews, "Nooo. I want something else." In those worst case moments, she even pushes the plate away and folds her arms. And, sigh.
(Note: While she may ask for "something else" she has exactly one fall-back option: yogurt. This is not a kid
Read More »Seriously, Too Much Sugar is Terrible for You and Your Kids: 11 Better-for-you Recipes to Try Now
By Foodlets | Shine Food – Fri, Mar 16, 2012 8:10 AM EDTCupcakes with healthier ingredients: carrots, wheat germ and white beans.Here's a news flash reported recently by USA Today: kids are eating too much sugar. Your kids, my kids and there are pretty serious consequences. (And let's not even talk about my own sweet tooth. Except we should; more on that in a minute.) This isn't a discussion about blame, though. I have two little ones myself and we all know it's an uphill battle from the start. These little rascals actually DO come out of the womb craving sugar and fat. Of course, this is thanks to our ancestors who actually needed enough reserves to get by during lean times. The problem is that processed food--yes I'm talking to you Goldfish crackers, Coke and every flavor of the Skittles rainbow--isn't what Mother Nature had in mind. And she retaliates with force these days, as noted in the article.
"A diet high in added sugars is linked to many poor health conditions, including obesity, high blood pressure and other risk factors for heart disease and stroke. The findings come at a time when a third of
Read More »Italian Lessons: How to Take Kids to a Restaurant
By Foodlets | Shine Food – Fri, Feb 10, 2012 10:15 AM ESTLa Dolce VitaSay what you will about French parenting but when it comes to food and family around a table, no one does it better, or enjoys it more, than Italians.
We've lived in Rome for three years, where our baby and toddler both were born, and while our Dolce Vita has had its ups and downs, one of our absolute favorite activities is spending a long afternoon together…at a restaurant.
There are cloth napkins and waiters in black jackets, usually one high chair for the whole place, never a children's menu and don't even think about a changing table in the bathroom. Yet, the experience is completely welcoming, comfortable and believe it or not, fun. Even for kids. Even for other diners. Italians expect children to be involved in mealtime experiences, whether they're long, fancy or both, and I love them for it."Italian children are reared at the table," writes Helen Ruchti in "La Bella Vita". "They grow up sitting on the laps of parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles. They are held and
Read More »10 Sneaky Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Treats Healthier
By Foodlets | Shine Food – Wed, Feb 1, 2012 5:57 PM ESTWith Valentine's Day fast approaching and our youngest daughter's first birthday coming even sooner, we're in the mood for sweet treats. But here's what we'd like to avoid: a giant family-wide sugar crash. (The kind that involves crying, screaming, flailing and foot-stomping...and we're not just talking about the pregnant lady here.) Actually Estelle, our birthday girl-to-be, hasn't really had refined sugar yet and as I said about our toddler at this age, she's got the rest of her life to become a junk food addict. For now, let's try to show her another way--but let's make it fun.
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It's not about being fanatical though, our family is focused on healthy eating as a lifestyle. We're trying to develop habits that keep us all happy (some treats, good), healthy (too many treats, bad) and as far away from diabetes and obesity as possible and as it turns out, it's not as hard as I thought. Cooking from scratch is certainly an advantage because you can moderate the amount of everything going
