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    • A New Type of Cyber Bullying?

      I think there is a lot to be gleaned about how parents are addressing cyber bullying with their children. And while I've previously written about cyber bullying and the challenges children face, I feel that there is another type of cyber bullying that goes un-noticed. Parents bullying their children, under the guise of parenting. I am typically not one to soap box, but I recently read a piece that was heralded as the "most heartbreaking eBay listing you'll see today," and I felt provoked.


      A (probably desperate) parent decided to list her sons' Beyblades after battles in the bathtub ruined the enamel, "took out a chunk" and broke the soap dish. I don't believe I was alone when I felt bothered that the listing is accompanied by a picture of the boys riveting in pain at the jurisdiction. The question being asked now is: Did the parent take it too far? Is this another form of cyber bullying?

      I suppose the answer is a personal one, with more potential view points than one

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    • Following in my footsteps...

      I think we always hope that our children will be the better version of who we are. While we dream that they are a somewhat recognizable copy, and that the core of their footprint in life is attributable to their upbringing, the desire to have them be all that they can be, and then some, is the universal parental hope.

      The two questions I am often found asking myself are:

      - Do my childhood dreams effect my parenting regardless of my children's gender?

      - Do I feel that my childhood dreams should also be their dreams?'

      For example, as a girl scout in my youth, a soccer player in my pre-teen years, and a cheerleader in my teens- 'do I hope that my daughter will follow in my path?' Not necessarily, those were different times, with fewer social activities; I opted in because they were available. What I do think I can pass along are those activities that are core to each of the activities; girl scouts inspired the ability to set and achieve goals; soccer taught team work

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    • The Good Will Stalker

      Combustible generosity

      It's a single act of kindness that can change the course of events. It's our ability to be empathetic that separates us from other creatures. But when you are challenged with the duty of deliberately doing acts of kindness for random strangers, you are put in the position of a good will stalker. This holiday season, Yahoo! launched its "How Good Grows" campaign to inspire millions of people in the global Yahoo! community to change the world together through random acts of kindness. The goal: to create a ripple of generosity that combusts this holiday season along the lines of the butterfly effect. For such a simple and genuine quest I felt a daunting sense of awe. How does one select one person over another to help or is it more about the element of bestowing a kind surprise? I was conflicted about how to tackle this 'giving' project and I was stunned to think that a global company would have the vision to do something that didn't point directly to its

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    • User post: What to give up? Leafing it up to you.

      To me the holidays have always had a magical pull of tradition laced with new traditions. In other words, anything fun and new is added to the stack of holiday traditions, and nothing is EVER removed. It's a one way pot of fun goodness that is truly more than anyone could logically handle, and yet it drives me and my family to the point of sheer exhaustion topped off with a permanent smile. I am convinced it is a form of civilized, and socially acceptable, insanity that really should be prohibited. But the question is - what to give up?

      It all starts in October with visions of pumpkins dancing in our heads and by December we are in full-on frantic holiday mode. The days are a filled with a combination of good food and fun crafts. With time being one of the most limited resources of this festive season, this is a craft that you can do once and it will last for years.

      Leafing Supplies:

      30-40 leaves, fresh so that they can be pressed flat, once they are curled they will

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