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Question: I am totally hopeless at flirting with men that I find attractive, ESPECIALLY when I'm on first or second dates. I'm okay when I'm flirting with them online, but once we actually meet up in person, I totally geek out, get tongue tied and self conscious. The person that I am just evaporates, and I'm right back to the shy girl i was in junior high. I know that it must be super confusing to my dates, because I'm highly educated, successful, and even have a Ph.D in psychology! I'd definitely appreciate your expert direction here.
Meghan in Miami
Okay Meghan, this is one of my favorite problems to solve, because it's actually so fun to fix! One of the biggest contributing factors to my career success was my early exposure to NLP, neuro linguistic programming.
As a psychologist, you probably already know that NLP is a communication system that teaches people how to get into "rapport" with someone in a powerfulRead More »from Love Rx: Captivating Flirt Tips If You're Shy