Last week, I had to weigh in on what I saw as the silliest outrage about the Tiger affair. Now I would like to weigh in on the second silliest outrage...
The second most popular flabbergasted comment I've heard about Tigergate: But I mean it's those women! They're not even hot! They're skanks! They're trashy! If he were going to have an affair with, well, the entire staff at Spearmint Rhino, couldn't he pick some more savory types?
People say this all the time. Her? Why her? Seriously, her? It's what they said about Monica Lewinsky. It's what they said about that ESPN tryst. It's what everyone said when my friend Tara's husband cheated with some woman from his company's sales force.
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