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    • How I Rediscovered Writing

      I am not a fiction writer, I am more of a diary/random thought writer. I used to write fiction when I was in high school but that was because it was encouraged during English classes. My writing was based on real stories rather than pure fiction. My characters and plots were based on people that I knew and this was mainly about my life. As a young girl, from the age of 7-17, I felt misunderstood and mistreated by everyone around me. Writing was my only way out. I never thought about writing again until I moved and lived in Belgium for 4 months.

      I didn't speak any French and I would jump on anyone who spoke English and who expressed interest in being friends. I was lonely and broke. Not easy when you are in a strange country and you don't speak the language. Being broke was the main problem as you really can't go out to meet people if you don't have money. (I was so broke, I was living on potatoes/rice- Bread was even too expensive at one point) But then because I was lonely and

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    • Sore Throat

      Sore Throat

      Holding in angry words. Feeling unable to express the self.

      I have had this sore throat since this morning and since I learnt about listening to your body a few years ago, I agree with the above definition. I have been holding my words and have been unable to express myself because I have been in a bit of a challenging position.

      Ok, my sore throat has gone. I thought about a few different things that I thought could be giving me a sore throat

      • - Too much smoking
      • - Drinking
      • - A cold

      Its only when I went through this list that I thought, I had not smoked much more than my usual number of cigarettes and that I had not drunk anything different that my usual number of drinks and if it was a cold I did not have any other symptoms of a cold. That is when I decided to look up for other reasons of sore throat. I found this online and I tried to think of a few things that I could have been holding

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    • Designer Vagina and Female Genital Mutilation

      http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/designer-vagina-surgery-the-new-cosmetic-117464

      Its stories like these that my blood boils. What is the difference between genital mutilations and designer vagina's? The most common argument will be that the women who go for designer vaginas have made a choice and that genital mutilation is forced upon young girls. But let's dig deeper people. Both of these mutilations are for the same purpose. To please men. To me they are basically the same. I actually think designer vaginas are worse than genital mutilations because these women have been so psychologically programmed to see themselves as inadequate to the point of wanting to mutilate their bodies in the most unimaginable ways. First it was facial plastic surgery and then, it went into whole body plastic surgery, and now it's going even deeper into a woman's body, her vagina.

      This has all been about working on women's psyche, making women feel that they are not good enough unless they

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    • MIXED EMOTIONS

      I am dealing with some mixed emotions here. Do I like you that much or is it that at this particular moment anyone who would show me attention would make me feel the same way you do?

      I am lonely, that is a fact. I go for days on end without having a proper conversation with anyone. When you called it was like a breath of fresh air even though I thought you were a bit full of yourself but all I want is company and someone to talk to. The sex was great, the first time round but the second time, it became a bit routine and boring but the company didn't. I still wanted to talk to you. But then I want to talk to everyone these days. I miss having conversations with people. It's very difficult to find someone who can talk about the same issues as me. Someone I can connect with, so I guess the issue is I do miss you. I want to talk to you, tell you about my day, my thoughts, my dreams and wishes and most of all just hear you laugh, when you really laugh and you let go of yourself for a

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    • User Post: Dating is Hard!

      Dating is painful

      No matter what anyone says, I have come to the conclusion that I hate dating. I just want to be in a relationship and that is why I have never called a relationship to an end because I really hate dating but maybe I have not done a good job at keeping the men I have had in my life.

      Actually no, why can't it be that the men are the ones who are wrong? I am not at the best of my game at the moment; I am feeling a little bit low, a lot of things happening

      Despite everything that everyone says, I know what I am looking for and I am not quick to judge, I try everything once, sometimes even twice, but if it does not feel right, I have to move on because time iis against me. I never thought I would turn into one of these women who are ruled by my body clock, but unfortunately, my body clock is ticking very loudly. I remember watching an 80's movie and this girl was telling her then boyfriend,( I think it was Danny De Vito but I will have to verify on that)

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    • Sometimes, Giving Someone a Second Chance is like Giving Them an Extra Bullet.......

      For their gun because the first one misses.--
      A friend posted this on their face book wall and I thought hey, this is describing me at this particular time. I really need to learn and stand up to my decisions rather than letting others make that decision for me

    • This Song Explain How I Am Feeling Right Now!

      Guess mine is not the first heart broken My eyes are not the first to cry I'm not the first to know There's just no getting over you
      You know, I'm just a fool who's willing To sit around and wait for you But baby, can't you see There's nothing else for me to do? I'm hopelessly devoted to you
      But now there's nowhere to hide Since you pushed my love aside I'm out of my head Hopelessly devoted to you Hopelessly devoted to you Hopelessly devoted to you
      My head is saying, "Fool, forget him" My heart is saying, "Don't let go Hold on till the end" And that's what I intend to do I'm hopelessly devoted to you
      But now there's nowhere to hide Since you pushed my love aside I'm out of my head Hopelessly devoted to you Hopelessly devoted to you Hopelessly devoted to you

      Read more: OLIVIA NEWTON-JOHN - HOPELESSLY DEVOTED TO YOU LYRICS http://www.metrolyrics.com/hopelessly-devoted-to-you-lyrics-olivia-newtonjohn.html#ixzz23ExYmR14
      Copied from MetroLyrics.com

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    • THE SPECIAL ONE

      You sprinted into my life with your beautiful smile and your playfulness

      Our first date was magical

      I fell in love with you

      I loved you from the moment I set my eyes on you

      You were the man that I had been waiting for

      Tall

      Charming

      Big build

      Muscular- there are some muscles hidden under the flab

      Oh yes I love you - disturbed young man

      Your life is full of pain

      I can feel your pain

      And the charm you use to hide that pain

      Underneath all that complexity is a lovely man

      A sweet man I want to have children with

      Even though I see every man I go on a date with as a future husband

      You are special

      You make me feel like a woman

      I have always said that a man should make you feel good after having sex

      And my oh my, you made me feel like a princess after our first night

      How I loved seeing your beautiful smile when I got up on our 2 nd night together

      How I loved seeing you walk away from me because I was

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