Blog Posts by Teacup Diamonds

Love is a crooked word because is has gone misunderstood for generations to generations. Love is always looked to be the most perfect, loving, word and an example of perfection with a great feeling that capture the heart of many men and women. A word that can be easily said than done, or even used to lie and scheme to get what one person want, out of a person, vunerbility for the use of a negative purpose.

Love is an misconcept because it has become based on condition and unconditions has been exempt. Love has been created unconditionally because it was given to everyone no matter what the circumstances or the heart or mind of the person. It was made to share in truth, honesty with a greater need of sincere compassion. Love has a deep rooted need to live for self as well as others to feed from the knowledge, and understanding of who you are and how you have developed as a human being.

But, allow me to speak about the self inspiration. Self is built from your self motivation, self

When it comes to relationships, and your man or husband has done things that may concern you, do not argue about it. If he says something you do not like, do not respond. If you ask him to do something and he di not do what you ask him, do not get mad ladies. Whatever the case might be, that would cause you to react is to not react. why? I'm glad you ask. There is one important thing you can do, to get their attention and show them how you feel. Number one again, DO NOT REACT. Do something he would least expect you to do. It works everytime, if you do something different, that he do not expect you to do, it will give him a shock to his senses, I guarantee you. If you do this, you would never go through any of those problems again.

Now, I will tell you what you do, you will love this and he, well he will love it nad hate it all at the same time.
1. Wait until he come in and start cooking or finish cooking when he comes in, after he comes in and get comfortable
2. Go put on your or

No one can change anyone.......that person have to want to be change and no matter what you have to deal with until that change come, you have to decide if you want to wait for the change or go on with your life. I feel if a person wants to change for the sake of not losing themselves and losing the ones who are important to them in their lives, it should not take much to make that decision, but I do know prayer changes things, and that is true love, love changes things.

But, if the mind is not made up to change and it seems to be longer than necessary than they have decided that being who they are is ok and you are not important enough to change, in the risk of losing you.

So in that case, I think it's important to put you first, if no one feels you are important enough for them to change themselves first for themselves and to avoid losing someone they love, you have to come to a point to change you and realize you are important to you.

You have to come to a point to put you first

True love is a love that is truely unspoken, what I mean by unspoken? I believe if everyone, including both people in a relationship together would not break up, get a divorce, not one person agreeing to divorce or giving up on eachother the relationship can become very loving. When you say you really love someone it never goes away, true love can not go away that easy. Some cases it doesn't go away and why it's because, we were created and born to love, it is our birth right. Our hearts, our soul and even our minds crave for it, because it is a part of life, for some who let it go away never knew how to love from the very beginning. It can be confused with lust, facturation, or filling a void.

Love is strong and it can exude greatness in very difficult situation. Someone once said love can't pay the bills, no but the one who created love can, how? Love is so powerful it can bring positive change to any ones atmosphere. But, when you allow the negative to dominate the positive change

Holding on is the hardest thing to do when you want to really let go, when it's so much weight on the other end the best thing to do is let it go because it becomes to heavy. Holding on can be unbearable, because then you ask the question what am I holding on to, when what you are holding, have no reason for the hold.

But on the other hand you have to ask some realistic questions to yourself; is this relationship worth it, or this job or business idea etc. worth the fustration, worth the wait or is it worth your happiness. What possibilities of holding on, will prove itself later. The job you may get a promotion you never thought you would get or a raise that will handle all your bills and all the enjoyment you been wanting to do.

Relationship; it probably have been a bad relationship or just not compatible, so you don't want to hold on to something that isn't going any where or no change has occurred, but it's a possibility that the person may change for the better, they may decide

A man can have the best woman, he ever thought he could not have! A woman is very pleasing, she never ask for a lot, and she appreciates the little things. You can have her right where you want her under a few conditions. 1. Love her unconditionally 2. Be kind and gentle to her 3. Protect her at all times 4. Don't Cheat 5. Care for her 6. Make her feel important 7. Make her matter to you 8. Treat her as a the Queen that she is, 9. Curtious, 10. Respect her at all times 11. Equal space 12. Hear her and listen to her 13. Spend Valueable time.

A man wants a loving kind woman who does not nag him, who is very understanding, support his decisions, not arguementive, understands his manly ways, know when to nurture him, know when not, give him space (but men not to much, where you are to far away and lose her), not just listen but hear, spend time and not with the girls.

When a man do these things he can have that Proper "B" stature Every Man Wants. The Proper "B" Sature of a

Why do we judge others for their own mistakes? Let me talk about us (women), one thing we all have to understand about women and ourselves is this; We are emotional creatures we listen to our emotions majority of the time, than our minds. So, if we have caused any certain misbehavior to occur in our lives or it seems you find ourselves having a girly moment and we say, why do I keep finding the wrong guy or the famous "WHY ME".......it's because we trusted our hearts and that person. No, is it an excuse No, but this is the more likely case for us to allow certain things to happen in our lives. Every women is looking for tha right "A" man to come along, AMEN LADIES......AMEN! Now, some women get a little impatient, but women always want to believe this one is it, because he seems so sweet.

Dating, before I got married I did not like to date, dating was not for me, how did I know my husband was the one to marry, he was different from the rest. His conversation was different, and I just

Love is a strong word, that isn't always taken seriously,, just like marriage, Both of those tie hand in hand. But love stretch so far it exsist even if you are not married. Love to me should always be demonstrated in truth and with consistancy, not wavering, ifey and with NO conditions.

One of the problems why we can't look over the other one faults and let love rule, control, demonstrate, navigate, and strengthen is because we think one sided and not see the other side. What do I mean? If the shoe was on the other foot wouldn't you want to be forgiven and given the benefit of the doubt....uuummm! or wouldn't you want to be understood and allowed the chance to change! Sometimes..... No that's not easy; because we first wonder why, instead of first getting our thoughts together and praying about a solution to the problem for the one we say we love.

Yes, we think and say "Well they didn't think about the love they had for me when they did it to me" but in reality they didn't do it to