boy going to KindergartenAbout 6 months before having my first August baby, I gathered with teacher friends in the teacher lunch room at the elementary school where I taught. I knew then, without even knowing my child, that with an August 31 cut-off, the baby would be "held back" prior to Kindergarten.
There were many reasons. To start, I'd rather him or her be the oldest than the youngest. He'd drive his car and drink legally first rather than last. I recognized that no matter how much he could handle academically when he was 6, 7 or 8, it was the maturation of the child I was more concerned about. So I wasn't just thinking ahead 6 or 7 years, I was thinking ahead 12 or 13 years.
While this decision was based on emotions, it was also based on experience. Each year, by the time the first week of school had ended, I could practically place my students in a line by age, youngest to oldest, and without even glancing at the class roster. This wasn't an academic judgment, it had nothing to do with theRead More »from User post: NOW my son is ready for kindergarten