Dear Em & Lo,
My boyfriend and I have great sexual chemistry and things have been going really well both inside and outside of the bedroom, but there's one small issue: we're both on the sexually submissive side. Though it is not usually an issue, it is clear that we'd both prefer being with someone more sexually dominant than ourselves. I would like to try and see if I have it in me to be more dominant in the bedroom because I know he would really like that, but I have no idea how! I would really appreciate some tips on how to take charge in the bedroom. Thanks.
You don't have to be dressed in head-to-toe pleather, wielding a riding crop and saying things like "You've been a bad, bad boy" to embrace your inner dom. Here are five simple things you can do -- with or without props -- that don't require a lot of emoting on your part:
- Tie him up. This is domination 101. By restraining him, you make him a slave to your