When you write about sex for a living, it's easy to get caught up in the idea that we should always be inventing a new position or discovering a new erogenous zone. But sometimes it's good just to remind ourselves of some basics. These 15 tips never go out of style - and they're way easier to pull off than the Wheelbarrow, too.
- Don't rush. It's way easier and sexier for your partner to say, "More, harder, oh god, faster," than it is to say, "Whoa! Slow down there, cowboy."
- Do provide positive reinforcement. Total silence sucks. Your partners will welcome praise and feedback like Jessica Simpson would a good review. Plus, it's an easy way to dabble in dirty talk. If you can't find the words, appreciative noises work just as well.
- Don't assume that just because you're in love (or on good behavior), you can't have it dirty. The idea that marriage, monogamy or even good manners is the end of dirty, throw-me-against-the-wall, taboo-busting sex is a tired,