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Dear Em & Lo,
I love my boyfriend very much, but he comes so early on that I'm left hanging. Receiving oral sex ahead of time would sure get me that orgasm, but he doesn't even do that! I NEVER orgasm, because as long as he gets his, it seems to not bother him that I don't get mine! Totally ridiculous!
- Blue Walls
Dear Blue Walls,
It seems to us that your problem is not with your orgasm but with your boyfriend. If he's not bothered by your lack of orgasms, then we'd humbly suggest that you not bother with him. Period. (Tell him you've found someone who'll go down on you at the drop of a hat…er, push of a button.) If that seems too extreme for you, we suggest experimenting with other "inspirational" measures. For example, would he be bothered by a lack of ----- s? Then try going on an oral sex strike.
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