Dear Em & Lo,
I am a 64 yr old widow of 16 yrs. I met a 59 yr old divorced firefighter online.He says he loves me and is planning to move to my hometown to be with me when he retires this summer. We've been chatting online for a month. We have not been intimate either with cyber sex or phone sex but for the last week upon his urging we both got webcams on which we have undressed for each other. He has been totally nude but I've only been topless. He wants me fully naked but I said I wasn't comfortable, that I want to save this for when we meet this summer. He is now giving me the silent treatment and is pouting. Is he worth giving him my heart and soul and introduce him to my grown children? From what I've shared about him does he sound like someone I can commit to? Please advise.
-- Long-Distance Doubter
Good for you for getting back out there, and via online personals no less! That's very cool. But as with anything, online relationships have theirRead More »from Is Long-Distance, Virtual Love Real?