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Dear Em & Lo,
When I was 18 I walked away from the first love in my life. He has been the man that I based all other relationships on. Recently, thanks to Facebook, we have reunited as friends. We email and text and met for lunch once. We are both married with children. I haven't told my husband about him, though I'm sure he suspects something. How do I tell my husband about this friendship that I don't want to share with him? I don't want to sneak around, which I am doing now. All of the unresolved issues I had with my ex (yes I was young then, how could they matter) are finally being worked out. I still love him and that won't go away. I love my husband, but have no idea how to express my needs in this area. Is there, will there be more than friendship with this man? I don't believe there will be. Is it better to getRead More »from Your Call: Should I Tell My Husband I Facebooked the One That Got Away?