Advice from three of EMandLO.com's guy friends. This week they answer the following: Do most straight guys secretly want to have their bums explored by their girlfriends/wives? Like, even if they don't admit it, and they'd never ask…deep down, are they curious?
Straight Single Guy (L.A. Chris): When they're together, straight guys tend to avoid anything that could sound even remotely homosexual. Not even a metro guy will tell his buddies how much he enjoyed the ass-play he got last night. This makes it hard to gauge how many butt-buffs there really are out there, but for me I can easily say no. No curiosity, no secret enjoyment. I'm probably in the minority here, but to me it's sort of like a stray finger up the nose while making out: not terrible, but not particularly exciting either - just off-target.
Straight Married Guy (Jamie): I really think this has to do with the guy's own level of homophobia. If the guy is open-minded and comfortable in his masculinity, then it's just something else to try in the bedroom. However, I personally know a few guys who are otherwise pretty sexually adventurous, but who feel that any attempted ass play from their partners is a deal-breaker. Of course, these are the same guys who still think it's funny to make " f-- " jokes about each other in public. I think, for guys like this, asking for some anal attention would be too big of a threat to their warped sense of masculinity.